I am sure you have heard someone say, “You
are going to eat those words.” It may sound like a mere phrase to us, but
in reality we do eat our words. What we say not only affects others, but it
also affects us.
Words are wonderful when used in a proper way.
They can encourage, edify and give confidence to the hearer. A right word
spoken at the right time can actually be life-changing. (See Proverbs 15:23.)
We can literally increase our own joy by
speaking right words. We can also upset ourselves by talking unnecessarily
about our problems or things that have hurt us in relationships.
Not too long ago I had a disappointing
situation take place with someone I considered to be a close friend. I noticed
that each time I talked about it, I would have a difficult time getting it off
of my mind for the remainder of the day. I finally realized that if I wanted to
get over it, I was going to have to stop mentally and verbally going over it
again and again. People kept asking me about the situation out of genuine
concern, but I ultimately realized that I had to answer, “It is better for
me if I just don’t talk about it.”
What Happens When We Speak?
The words that come out of our mouth go into
our own ears as well as other people’s, and then they drop down into our soul
where they give us either joy or sadness, peace or upset, depending on the
types of words we have spoken.
“When we understand the power of words and
realize that we can choose what we think and speak, our lives can be
transformed. ”
God desires that our spirit be light and free
so it can function properly, not heavy and oppressed. We can learn to choose
our thoughts, to resist wrong ones and think on good, healthy, and right ones.
I have often said, “Where the mind goes, the man follows.” And it
could also be said that where the mind goes, the mouth follows!
When we understand the power of words and
realize that we can choose what we think and speak, our lives can be
transformed.
Plan to Say Something Positive
God has given His children a new nature, and we
are taught to daily renew our mind and attitude. Having a positive outlook on
life and speaking positive words based on God’s Word is one of the most
wholesome things we can do.
When you get up in the morning, if there is
something you need to attend to that day that you’re not looking forward to,
you can say, “I dread this day,” or you can say, “God will give
me strength today to do whatever I need to do and to do it with joy.” Which
of these two statements do you think would better prepare you for the day?
As we have seen, we eat our words, and we can
rightfully say that they are food for our souls. Anyone who wants to be healthy
is careful to choose quality food that will provide good nutrition. If we want
to be healthy in our soul and spirit, we should also choose to take in words
that will build us up and increase our peace and joy.
Draw Attention to the Positive
I believe there are many good things happening
in the world and probably there is more good than bad. But the evil is
magnified in a way that often seems overwhelming. Turn on any news station or
buy any newspaper or news magazine and you will find it filled with reports of
murder, theft, wars, famine and all kinds of horribly tragic events.
We want to be well informed of what is going
on, but to talk about world problems excessively or with no purpose merely
creates a gloomy atmosphere that nobody will enjoy.
I recently walked into a room and heard a group
of people talking about several businesses that had recently filed bankruptcy.
Then they mentioned two others that they had heard were going to file
bankruptcy. I felt a gloom hanging in the atmosphere so I said, “Well, God
is not bankrupt and He is on our side.” Everyone agreed with me and
immediately, the atmosphere changed.
I am not suggesting at all that we deny
reality, but we can choose what we talk about. Instead of feeding ourselves a
steady diet of “bad news,” we should choose to read, watch and talk
about good things.
What Are You Talking About?
We talk a lot and quite often pay no attention
to what we are saying, let alone think seriously about the impact of our words.
If we are honest with ourselves, we may find
that some of our bad moods are directly linked to our conversation. Even some
of our problems can be linked to bad choices we make about what we say.
I want to encourage you to take some time and
think about the types of things you usually talk about. What kind of
conversation do you enjoy and participate in?
How to Get More Joy Out of Life
Your words may not be the cause all of your
problems, but they can cause a lot of them and they should be given a good deal
of consideration when we are looking for answers to the problems we encounter
in life.
We all have challenges in life, but we can make
them better or worse by the way we talk about them. I don’t believe we can
change all of our circumstances into pleasant ones by making positive
confessions, but I do believe many of them will change according to God’s will.
I simply want to teach you to be in agreement with God and learn to say what He
says.
One thing is for sure, speaking negatively
could hurt you and speaking positively never will, so why not go with the
positive and see what kind of results you get?
This article is based on an excerpt from
Joyce's book, Change Your Words, Change Your Life.
