Sunday, February 5, 2023

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | THE POWER OF A PRAYING HUSBAND | STORMIE OMARTIAN | CHAPTER FOUR

CHAPTER FOUR | HER MOTHERHOOD


In my survey of wives, women voted motherhood as one of their top three needs for prayer, just under prayer for their spirits and for their emotions.

Every mother struggles daily with finding the successful balance between being a good mother and being a good wife. 

Your wife needs your prayers to help her find that balance. When she does, it will not only be better for her, but it will bless you and your children in countless ways.

God will work through your prayers to give her peace in the process. Your prayers for her as a mother can make the difference in whether her responsibilities become a daily grind of dirty work or a life-giving labor of love.


THE PAIN OF EMPTY ARMS

For women who very much want their own children and have been denied that experience, there is a pain so deep that only God can touch it and soothe it.

Healing for infertility was mentioned as one of the top needs for prayer for mothers in my survey of women.

I've known many people who have been childless, praying for years for a baby, and who then have seen God answer those prayers in one miraculous way or another.

This could not have happened without the long-term fervent prayers of husbands and wives seeking a miracle from God. Often the greatest miracles happen to those who are desperate for one.


THE WORKING MOM

Not being there to greet the children when they come home from school, not seeing them learn something new, not being able to take time off from work when a child is sick, missing special events, performances, games, or field trips, wondering if the person caring for the child is doing a good job while knowing that no one could better care for the child than herself—all these contribute to a mother's pain and guilt.

No matter how good or devoted a mother she is, or how great her parenting skills are, every woman wants prayer that she will be a better mom. Working moms are desperate for those prayers because they have to do more with less time.


DADS HAVE GUILT TOO

There is great pressure on men to be and do everything successfully, and there is a deep sense of failure when they don't feel they are living up to their own or others' expectations of them.

I want to encourage you as a father to know that your presence in the home is vitally important. It's more important than you probably realize. When you are at home, it gives your wife and children a sense of security, strength, and
love.

If you spend a few minutes of undivided attention a day with your children, looking each of them in the eye and talking to them about their lives in an encouraging way, it enables them to believe they are valuable. You have no idea how important your approval is to your family.

Praying for your children each day is a way you can be more involved in their lives daily while still providing for their needs in the manner you would like.

It's also good to pray for your children together with your wife. "If two of you agree on earth concerning anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven" (Matthew 18:19). If one can put a thousand to flight, but two can put ten thousand to flight (Deuteronomy 32:30), then praying for your children with your wife is powerful.

It will give your wife the greatest peace, confidence, and joy to know you are praying. 

No matter how much you are paid in a lifetime for the work you do, the time you spend praying for your wife and children is worth far more.

Whenever you pray for them, you are investing in your future together and storing up treasures in heaven.

Please pray for your wife that:
1. She will be guided by God in raising her children.
2. She will have patience with each child.
3. She will have wisdom when disciplining her children.
4. She will teach her children well about the Lord.
5. She will know how to pray for each child.
6. Her children will be obedient and respectful to her.
7. Her children will rise up and call her blessed.

POWER TOOLS
Proverbs 31:28
Psalm 127:3
Isaiah 65:23
Lamentations 2:19
1 Samuel 1:27

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#23MinuteChallenge | Bible Project Reading Plan | Day 036 | The Covenant At Mount Sinai | Leviticus 19 – 20, Psalm 36

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Day 036 | The Covenant At Mount Sinai

Leviticus 19 – 20, Psalm 36


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Saturday, February 4, 2023

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | THE POWER OF A PRAYING PARENT | STORMIE OMARTIAN | CHAPTER FOUR

CHAPTER FOUR | FEELING LOVED AND ACCEPTED


One of the difficult things children must deal with are the lies that can come into their minds masquerading as truth.

These lies escalate as children move into their teenage years and often are carried into adulthood. That’s why I’m convinced it’s never too soon to start praying for a child to feel loved and accepted—first by God, then by family, then by peers and others.

Rejection is at the root of so much of the evil we read about in the newspapers every day.

Rejection brings out the worst in people. Love and acceptance bring out the best.

A person who already feels rejected interprets everything as rejection. A person may not actually be rejected, but if he (she) believes he (she) is, the effect is just as damaging as if it were true.

Knowing that God loves and accepts us changes our lives. He says, “I have chosen you and have not cast you away” (Isaiah 41:9). “I have loved you with an everlasting love” ( Jeremiah 31:3). And He proves His love because “God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us” (Romans 5:8).

The Bible assures us that “neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Romans 8:38-39).

We must pray that our children understand these truths; they are the solid ground upon which love and acceptance are established in their character.

Parental love is the first love a child experiences and the firs love he (she) understands. In fact, parental love is often the means by which children actually open themselves to God’s love and come to understand it early in life.

From the time our children are born, we should pray, “God, help me to really love my child the way You want me to and teach me how to show it in a way he (she) can understand.”

Along with prayer, children need to see love manifested toward them with eye contact, physical touch (a pat, a hug, a kiss), and with loving acts, deeds, and words.

When I made a deliberate effort to look my children directly in the eye with my hands gently touching them and with a smile say, “I love you and I think you’re great,” I could always see an immediate and noticeable change in their face and demeanor.

If you feel you don’t have the love you need to give your child, ask the Holy Spirit for it. The Bible says, “The love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us” (Romans 5:5).

One of God’s main purposes for your life is to fill you with so much of His love that it overflows onto others.


WEAPONS OF WARFARE
1 John 4:9-11
Deuteronomy 7:6
1 John 4:16
2 Thessalonians 2:13
Ephesians 1:3-6


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#23MinuteChallenge | Bible Project Reading Plan | Day 035 | The Covenant At Mount Sinai | Leviticus 16 – 18, Psalm 35

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Day 035 | The Covenant At Mount Sinai

Leviticus 16 – 18, Psalm 35


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Friday, February 3, 2023

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | SMALL BUSINESS BIG MONEY | AKIN AKINLABI | CHAPTER FOUR

CHAPTER FOUR | HOW TO ADVERTISE FOR MAXIMUM PROFITABILITY


You should let the world know you are out there.

This is where a lot of small business owners get it wrong. They do not know how to advertise their businesses properly.

some of the reasons why people advertise:

To Get Instant Results: Sales, Prospects, Contacts etc: That is called direct response advertising

To Create Visibility and Mind Share: Some businesses advertise to gain a mind share so people always have them in mind and when they need a product like theirs, they would come to them.

Because Everyone Advertises So They Have To: Some people don’t even have an idea why they are advertising. Such people are not meant to be in business. They are better off getting jobs.

Because Their Competitors Are Advertising: Some business owners do not have focus. They do everything the competition is doing. They advertise only because their competitors are advertising.

To Feel Really Cool With Themselves: Some people actually advertise their businesses just to feel cool with themselves.

You have to decide on your own motive. Why do you want to advertise? Your reason for advertising will determine the kind of advertising you will put out there.

The kind of TV or radio or Internet advert you will put out there when you are looking for instant responses is different from what you will put out there if you just want visibility.

What should be your motive for advertising? There is no motive that is better than the other. It’s a matter of choice.

My advice to any small business owner is to advertise just to get instant responses. 

They should focus solely on advertising just to get instant response. Direct response, measurable advertising is what they should do. Any branding that comes up along the way should just be a bonus and not what they spent money on.

I want you to determine the future of your business with your own hands and brains.

If you have a thousand Naira to spend on adverts, make sure you run adverts that will bring at least N1,100.00 in returns. Anything other than that, you have failed.

I see lots of young entrepreneurs running around looking for investors. I don’t think your focus should be on looking for investors. Look for customers. Make money from customers. Investors will find you later.

As a small business owner, stick to only one thing. Run only adverts that will bring instant returns.

So how do you go about creating direct response advertising?


The SEVEN COMMANDMENTS of direct response marketing.

1. You must arrest attention

2. You must make an offer

3. You must make a call to action

4. You must create a sense of urgency

5. You must track/test

6. You must establish credibility

7. You must take the risk away from the customers


Commandment 1: You Must Arrest Attention

You must arrest attention with your advertising. The reason is because if your advert does not attract attention, no one would notice it. It will be as good as dead.

If you are running print adverts like newspapers and billboards, the best way to attract attention is to have a very powerful headline.

Legendary direct response copywriter Ted Nicholas suggests that you should spend 80% of your time writing the perfect headline.

If it is a radio advert or a TV advert, or a video advert for the Internet, your first statement is your weapon.

Do something from the first second.


Commandment 2: You Must Make An Offer

If you want people to respond to your advertising immediately, you have to make them an offer.


Commandment 3: You Must Make A Call To Action

Most people want to be told what to do. Don’t just assume they know what to do.

In all your advertising, you must tell what you want your prospects to do.


Commandment 4: You Must Create A Sense of Urgency

Later is not good for a direct response advert. No. We want now. The way to make people order right now, is to create a sense of urgency.

One way is to create a deadline. Set a date when your offer will expire.


Commandment 5: You Must Track/Test

It is extremely important to track and test your adverts.

Tracking your adverts simply means finding out which of your advertising is working and which one is not.

That way, you will be able to put most of your advertising budget into what works.

This should be your guiding principle. You are running different adverts using fliers, radio, TV etc. Which one is bringing in the sales? Put money on that. It is important to track.

Do not make the mistake of thinking you know the best adverts for your market. You do not know. Only your results will determine what is good.

Let the results you receive from every advert determine what is working or what is not working.

Once you see which offer is bringing in the customers, concentrate on it. That is smart marketing.


Commandment 6: You Must Establish Credibility

You are just a small business owner coming through the ranks, why should people believe you?

People want to deal with credible people only.

You must show people that you are credible as well. You must establish credibility.

Here are some ideas for you:

Testimonials:

Get some people to use your products and get a honest feedback from them. Use the negative opinions to work on your products and use the positive ones in your marketing.

If such people permit, you can use their names, pictures and contacts in the testimonies. You can even have a recorded video testimonial. It works. It works in all kinds of businesses.

Recommendations from experts:

Get an expert to endorse your product for you. It works.

People will say if this person can endorse this, then I’m safe buying it.

Statistics from Surveys:

Carry out a survey about your products and brag about the results. Results in percentages work best.

Get people to answer questions about your products. If you have some customers already, ask them questions.


Commandment 7: You Must Take The Risk Away From The Potential Customer

People are afraid of making bad buying decisions. That is where you come in as a smart marketer. You must find a way to put their mind at rest.

The way to do is to offer your customers a guarantee. A guarantee that they are safe if they do not like the product.

How many times have you ever asked for a refund? You have made many purchases that came with guarantees but how many have you ever taken up? Most people do not. Do not be afraid to offer it. 

There are different kinds of guarantees. What you are selling will determine the kind of guarantee you will offer. 

Let’s look at three kinds of guarantees. They are the most common and effective.

Money Back Guarantee

It works all the time but I am the first to agree that you cannot use it for all products.

This guarantee, as the name implies means that if a customer is dissatisfied with your product or service, they can return it for a full refund of the amount they paid.

I agree there will be people that will try to take advantage of you. Of course there will always be rogues. But you know what? The sales your money bank guarantee will help you make will more than make up for the losses incurred by those thieves.

To use the money back guarantee technique, make sure you sell only top quality products.

Product Change Guarantee

This is another form of guarantee you can offer in your advertising. This time, you are not risking any money. You are only offering to change the product your customers are not satisfied with. You can offer them another product of the same financial value.

Service Guarantee

In some cases, service guarantees can come in handy. Free servicing for three months can work for car dealers.


How Long Should A Guarantee Last?

As a general principle, I have found that longer guarantee works better for me. When I offer guarantees for a week, my responses are not as powerful as when I offer guarantees that last for a year. I have had great results with lifetime guarantees as well.

There are some forms of advertising that will not give you the room to fit in all these features.

In a case like this, you should stick with just three commandments. The commandments are:
You must arrest attention
You must make an offer
You must make a call to action

You must arrest attention: For this all you need is a short headline. You have very limited space so you cannot write long headlines.

You must make an offer: Then you come up with an offer. A one sentence offer is the best and it must be a free offer. You don’t have enough space to convince them to buy so your best bet is to make a free offer.

You must make a call to action: get them to act now. Tell them what you want them to do. For a small advert, the best is to get them to show interest so you can follow up on them.


How To Choose The Best Places To Advertise Your Business

Before you choose the media, you must ask yourself what message are you trying to pass across? It is only after you have determined the message you want to put out, that you now decide on the best form of media that to convey
your message.

What you should do is come up with a message first, then decide on the media. What you are selling and what you want to say about it should come first and not the media.

Choosing The Right Media

Go to where your audience is. It is not about a particular newspaper or a particular blog. It is about the message and your target audience. It is not about the fliers.

When next you share your fliers, please take them to those that will likely be interested in them. You will be saving a lot of money that way.

Here are two rules about marketing with fliers:

DO NOT share your fliers on the streets to everyone. Give fliers only to your TARGET MARKET.

If you can, give your fliers to people at places where you can follow up on.

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Thursday, February 2, 2023

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | SMALL BUSINESS BIG MONEY | AKIN AKINLABI | CHAPTER THREE

CHAPTER THREE | HOW TO BECOME NUMBER ONE IN YOUR MARKETPLACE


I honestly believe that before you can say you are doing well in your business, you have to be the number one in your marketplace.

Your aim should be that your business should be one of the businesses that will be mentioned when your industry is being talked about.

Being one of the names that pop up in people’s head when people talk about your industry is what is known as the Evoked Set in the academic world.

You just have to be number one, even if it’s arguable.

So how do you become number one, or worst case scenario, a part of the evoked set? The truth is that it is hard and it can take you years of building, branding and credibility to get there. But I have a smart short cut you can follow which is…

Be The First In Your Market Place

One way to be in the evoked set is to be the first to enter your marketplace. When you are the first, you have engraved your name in that marketplace no one can ever take from you even when others come with better products and services.

Being the first in your marketplace has a lot of benefits. Firstly, you will be able to use the tag anywhere and no one will be able to dispute it.

Another advantage of being the first is that people will see others as a copy of you and if you are doing a decent job people will always refer to you as the gold standard of that industry.

Assume you already have a business and you cannot possibly be the first, what should you do?

Add a part or feature no one else is doing to your business or change the focus of your business in it’s entirety.

Another thing you can do is to come up with a business model that will disrupt the industry.

Add a Part or Feature No One Else is Doing to Your Business

When you succeed at something, others will follow. So think very well.

Change the focus of your business in it’s entirety. Change your focus and who you are targeting.

You can tailor your business to cater for a part of the industry you are in. Become the first in that sub sector and dominate it.

It is important to be the first. You will be noticed quickly.

To be a major player in your industry, try to become the first or disrupt an existing marketplace with something new.

Go into an industry and deploy a business model that makes it easier and financially better for the customers.

Disruption is a process that displaces an existing market, industry, or technology and produces something new and more efficient and worthwhile. - Prof. Clayton Christensen, Harvard Business School

To disrupt a market, you have to do something new. Something efficient. Something those in your market are not doing.


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Wednesday, February 1, 2023

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | SMALL BUSINESS BIG MONEY | AKIN AKINLABI | CHAPTER TWO

CHAPTER TWO | HOW TO DECIDE ON THE KIND OF BUSINESS YOU SHOULD DO


If you want to make a mark in the business world, you should not be doing what everyone else is doing.

Don’t Create A Product or Business and then Look For Customers…Rather Look For What People Want And Then Create A Business Around It

I decide on what to sell only AFTER I have seen a market that wants to buy. Rather than create a product and look for customers, I discover customers (market) and then create a product or service for that market. I am not in love
with any kind of business or service. I am in love with the market. I will sell anything (legal) that will satisfy that market.

Sidenote: Selling information products is a very lucrative business. It does not require much money to start.

Let your daily experiences and interactions with the world decide which market you should go into. Don’t think about products. Think about markets. Don’t be a student of products. Be a student of markets.

Because if you have a starving crowd to sell to, your restaurant would be very successful even if your food is terrible. Look for your own starving crowd. Discover what they want and create a business around it.

Forget the ideas you currently have and let the demands of a market influence the kind of business you do.

People want the best deal. Give them.

I am more concerned about the market. About the “WHO”. What is that thing LACKING that people are ready to pay more money for?

Sell What People Want To Buy…Not Necessarily What They Need To Buy

You see, the truth about business success is that once you offer people what they WANT to buy, your business will make you more money than you can ever spend. Lack of adequate capital will not be an issue as customers and investors will literately beg you to take their money.

Sell what people WANT to buy not what they NEED to buy.

If you want to make a lot of money as a small business and if you want to give yourself a big chance at success with your business, you should sell what people WANT to buy and not what people NEED to buy. Products people
need to buy will make you decent money but products people want to buy will fly off the shelves…Faster Than Usain Bolt

You have a bigger chance of success when you sell wants. When it comes to wants, human beings do not make their buying decisions based on common sense. We tend to buy emotionally.

It is very important to consider people’s wants when you are setting up your small business. Even if people need your product, make sure they want it as well.

When it comes to wants people make decisions with their hearts and not their heads so it makes it easier to sell.

No one cares about what (the work) you put into a product, they only care about what your product can do for them.

You should not make decisions based on sentiments or charity. Your focus should be on profits. If you want to help, take some of your profits, form a charity or work with an existing one. Your job as a business man is to make as
much money as possible.

Find a market before you think of the product. Find out if people really want the product. Is there a starving crowd? Then you can choose a business.


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