Thursday, May 23, 2019

7 Things Unsuccessful People Do | Terri Savelle Foy


Did you know that there are certain habits that unsuccessful people practice without even realizing it?

Today, Terri shares with you the top habits of the unsuccessful and ways you can rid these habits out of your life.

These habits include:

1.       They Complain
2.       They Are Always Late
3.       They Blame Others
4.       They Waste Money
5.       They Surround Themselves With Other Unsuccessful People
6.       They Watch A Lot Of TV
7.       They Gossip

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Wednesday, May 15, 2019

COMMUNION CONFESSION FOR LIGHT | MARTINA ADERONKE FATOGUN


Father, I thank you for the blood of Jesus Christ which was poured out for me. Jesus you said whoever eats your flesh and drinks your blood has eternal life, remains in you and you in him and you will raise him up on the last day, for your flesh is real food and your blood real drink (John 6:54-56). You came into the world as a light so that no one who believes in you should stay in darkness (John 12:46). In Jesus is life, and that life is the light of men. The light shines in darkness but the darkness has not understood it (John 1:4,5). I declare that God remains my light and salvation (Psalm 27:1) As I follow God I will no longer walk in darkness but I have the light of life (John 8:12).

Therefore, as I partake of this bread -- (EAT) -- light shines on me. Light penetrates every fiber of my being- spirit, soul and body- to drive out darkness. Anything representing darkness in me can no longer remain.

I drink the blood of Jesus -- (DRINK) -- and declare no more night and darkness in my health, marriage, ministry, career, mind, spiritual walk and destiny. The sun will no more be my light by day, nor will the brightness of the moon shine on me, for the Lord will be my everlasting light, and my God will be my glory. My sun will never set again, and my moon will wane no more; the Lord will be my everlasting light, and my days of sorrow have ended (Isaiah 60:19-20). I will not need the light of a lamp (or any medical equipment) or the light of the sun (or anything produced from the sun’s light energy) for good health; for the Lord God Himself supplies the light needed for my health and vitality (Revelation 22:5).

As a chosen generation, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, and one belonging to God, I declare the praises of God who called me out of darkness into His wonderful light. I remain a child of God who has received mercy (1 Peter 2:9-10). The Lord, keeps my lamp burning; my God turns my darkness into light.  With God’s help I can advance against a troop; with my God I can scale every wall of limitation (Psalm 18:28-29).

Many are asking, "Who can show me any good?" Let the light of your face shine upon me, O Lord. (Psalm 4:6). For with you is the fountain of life; in your light I see light (Psalm 36:9). Send forth your light and your truth, let them guide me; let them bring me to your holy mountain, to the place where you dwell (Psalm 43:3). It was not by their sword that the people of old won the land, nor did their arm bring them victory; it was your right hand, your arm, and the light of your face, for you loved them. I walk in the order of that kind of victory. For You are my King and my God, who decrees victories for me. Through you I push back my enemies; through your name I trample my foes (Psalm 44:3-5).

Thank you Lord for you have delivered me from death and my feet from stumbling, that I may walk before God in the light of life (Psalm 56:13). I am blessed as I learn to acclaim you and walk in the light of your presence, O Lord. I rejoice in your name all day long; I exult in your righteousness (Psalm 89:15-16). Even in darkness light dawns for me (Psalm 112:4). Your word is a lamp to my feet and a light for my path and the unfolding of your words constantly gives me light and understanding (Psalm 119:105 & 130) in all my endeavors in Jesus name. 

Amen and amen.

Wednesday, May 1, 2019

REALMS OF GLORY | MAY 2019


1 Then he brought me back to the door of the temple; and there was water, flowing from under the threshold of the temple toward the east, for the front of the temple faced east; the water was flowing from under the right side of the temple, south of the altar.
2 He brought me out by way of the north gate, and led me around on the outside to the outer gateway that faces east; and there was water, running out on the right side.
3 And when the man went out to the east with the line in his hand, he measured one thousand cubits, and he brought me through the waters; the water came up to my ankles.
4 Again he measured one thousand and brought me through the waters; the water came up to my knees. Again he measured one thousand and brought me through; the water came up to my waist.
5 Again he measured one thousand, and it was a river that I could not cross; for the water was too deep, water in which one must swim, a river that could not be crossed.
6 He said to me, “Son of man, have you seen this?” Then he brought me and returned me to the bank of the river.
Ezekiel 47:1-6
  
4 When He had stopped speaking, He said to Simon, “Launch out into the deep and let down your nets for a catch.”
5 But Simon answered and said to Him, “Master, we have toiled all night and caught nothing; nevertheless at Your word I will let down the net.”
6 And when they had done this, they caught a great number of fish, and their net was breaking.
7 So they signaled to their partners in the other boat to come and help them. And they came and filled both the boats, so that they began to sink.
Luke 5:4-7

This is surely a season to go deeper in our walk with God; 
pressing in to realms of glory yet to be attained.


48 So when they saw Him, they were amazed; and His mother said to Him, “Son, why have You done this to us? Look, Your father and I have sought You anxiously.”
49 And He said to them, “Why did you seek Me? Did you not know that I must be about My Father’s business?”
Luke 2:48-49

If we don’t know something is missing, we won’t be looking for it.


4 But He answered and said, “It is written, ‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God.’ ”
Matthew 4:4

This is a year of birthing, we need to mind our diet.
If it won’t matter moments before our last breath, it shouldn’t take the place of things that will.


3 Ask me and I will tell you remarkable secrets you do not know about things to come.
Jeremiah 33:3 NLT

God had our answers before we discovered the question.


May the benefits of pressing in to deeper realms of glory be ours in this season.

  
#GloryUnveiled

God Bless You!

Bayor


WHO'S DRIVING? | "QUANTUM OF STRESS"

Clenching the steering wheel, changing the gear and looking up to see the road ahead as though he was replaying the process in his mind as was told him by his driving instructor, I knew this was a good time for me to get out of the car but my curiosity got the best of me and I wanted to see what would happen…
The paint on the cab was quite fresh…which suggested that he must have just acquired the car, got it painted for town taxi business and got the “taxi driver’s list of music CD’s for dummies” …

Getting to the expressway on the bridge... a ...car joining from the overhead bridge on my right hand side came in so fast that this guy pulled a stunt that caused him to bash into the car to our left. Seeing our car screeching, somersaulting and then bursting into flames…Read More


AN EVENING TO REMEMBER

He...started several businesses...with drug addicts and prostitutes...he would...ask them bluntly “how bad are you?”...In most cases, none of them had done as much drugs, porn, slept with or killed as many people as he had. On hearing his story, most of them said “ha? Me I be saint be that o (wow, I must be a saint then)”...One day, he was recounting how he had personally killed about nine people before it dawned on him that the number wasn’t accurate...“I think I must be a god because...people in my vicinity are either killed just before I arrive or just after I left”... Read more


FROM THE ARCHIVES - MAY

THE MOTHER TONGUE | HOW FLUENT ARE YOU?

How Do You See Yourself? by Joyce Meyer

GRACE AND MERCY | MAY 2018

5 STAR; THE PREFERRED | MAY 2017

FAVORED HANDS | MAY 2016



Unless otherwise stated, all scripture references above were taken from the New King James Version of the Bible. 
Where applicable, emphasis mine.
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Friday, April 26, 2019

THE 7-STEP CHECKLIST FOR SUCCESS | TERRI SAVELLE FOY | TERRI.COM


 1. USE YOUR IMAGINATION.

• “Imagination should be used, not to escape reality, but to create it.” Colin Wilson

• You have to IMAGINE yourself succeeding on the INSIDE before it shows up on the OUTSIDE!

IMAGINE IT’S ONE YEAR FROM TODAY:

What have you accomplished? Where have you gone? What have you paid off? How much money have you saved? Imagine logging into your bank account, what do you see? What's that number? Who have you met or worked with? Where do you live? If you close your eyes, can you imagine driving up to the house of your dreams in the car of your dreams? What do you look like? When you look in the mirror, what do want to see? A healthier, fit version of you?

• Your ability to visualize yourself succeeding is VITAL to going where God wants you to go!

  
2. LEARN THE LANGUAGE OF SUCCESS.

• The language of success is positive, full of faith and gratitude.

1. Start a gratitude list You could have your own “gratitude wall” or use a gratitude journal to jot down each morning 3-5 things you're thankful for. This changes your mindset!

• The more gratitude you express, the more abundance you experience.

2. Start speaking positive, faith-filled affirmations over yourself and your future.

Romans 4:17 tells us that we serve a God who “speaks of nonexistent things as if they already exist.”

 • You have to use your words wisely in the direction you want your life to go by making positive declarations over yourself. Whatever you want to see happen in your life, speak it out!


3. DEVELOP A PLAN FOR PERSONAL GROWTH.

1. Be intentional about your personal growth. Make it one or your top 10 goals for this year.

2. Enroll in courses. Take a course that will push you, challenge you, keep you accountable to grow.

3. Set a goal to read a certain number of books each year. (12-15 books/year)

4. Set a time on your daily planner to read each day. (I read 20 min each morning before work)

• You owe it to yourself to develop what God has put in you.


4. GET CRYSTAL CLEAR ON WHAT YOU WANT!

• Most people don't get what they want in life because they don't even know what they want.

• Go to a new level of clarity

TERRI.COM | QUICK TIPS TO SETTING GOALS:

1. Imagine December 31 – and you say: “This has been the most phenomenal year of your life!” What needs to happen for you to say that?

2. Write it down. Write at least 7-10 goals for this year

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Thursday, April 25, 2019

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | WHO'S HOLDING YOUR LADDER | SAMUEL R. CHAND | CHAPTER 9

CHAPTER 9
WHOSE LADDER ARE YOU HOLDING?

Every true disciple of Jesus Christ holds somebody's ladder. That's God's plan. We need each other and we fulfill God's plan when we hold others' ladders.

Effective leaders understand that they are holding someone's ladder, whether it's the business partner's ladder, that of another church pastor, or a denominational leader. God has called all of us to hold ladders for others.

Effective leaders recognise two facts:
1. In leadership we will always need ladder holders.
2. In leadership we will also hold someone else's ladder. We are meant to support, assist, and help others in their climb upward.

Ladder holders must be strong, attentive, faithful, firm, and loyal. It is obvious that we need to be the kind of people we want others to become. If you want to develop superior ladders holders, we need to become superior ladder holders ourselves.

God always intended for service to be a street where we travel both ways. It is the law of reciprocity and it teaches us that what we give will come back to us. That's absolutely true; however, the problem is that we can only give what we have. We can only pass on what we possess. If we aren't good ladder holders, how can we expect to have good ladder holders helping us?

QUESTIONS FOR US TO PONDER

Do I possess those five essential qualities of good ladder holders?
Do I intentionally hold someone else's ladder?
Am I a dependable ladder holder? When was the last time I walked past a visionary leader and said "I really like his vision and like where he's going. I want to work alongside him and assist him by holding his ladder"?
When was the last time I asked, "What leader can I help?"
What does it say about us if we always seek someone to hold our ladder, but we are unwilling to hold another person's ladder?
When was the last time I attended a leadership conference when I wasn't a speaker?
When did I go to a conference just to hear somebody else?
When was the last time I read a book and thought, I really like this, and then corresponded with the author?
When was the last time I saw somebody else's advertisement in a magazine and said, "I want to serve that person"?

It's the principle, which is also in the Bible, that we reap what we sow. If we sow holding ladders, we reap those who will hold our ladders. We receive by giving.

The realisation that no one openly and intentionally mentored me has caused me to become more intentional to mentor others. I'm an accidental leader, but I don't want to be an accidental mentor.

Here are some large and final questions:

Whose ladder are you holding right now?
Who is climbing upward and trusting you to be there at the bottom, bracing the ladder for him or her?
Who is climbing high because you stepped out of the way and said, "Let me support you"?
Who will look back one day and say, "I rose forty-five feet in the air because you held my ladder"?

We have opportunities to be somebody's ladder holder. Because no one has done it for us, it may be difficult to intentionally commit ourselves to holding ladders, but it's not impossible.

We can commit ourselves to learning how to hold the ladders so others can climb high and some of them may even soar above us.

No matter how high we go we should be holding someone else's ladder - that's God's plan.

As leaders, we when we start upward, our most important decision is to choose the right ladder holders; as ladder holders, our most important decision is to select which ladders we hold.

When we accomplish great things on our own ladder, we remember what we've done. When we intentionally hold others' ladders and they accomplish great things, they remember us. Their achievements become our legacy.


Source: Who's Holding Your Ladder by Samuel R. Chand


Wednesday, April 24, 2019

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | WHO'S HOLDING YOUR LADDER | SAMUEL R. CHAND | CHAPTER 8

CHAPTER 8
HOW DID JESUS CHOOSE LADDER HOLDERS?

Peter, James, and John we are partners before Jesus called them. Jesus didn't break up their partnership.

Jesus wasn't looking around casually. He scrutinized or focused carefully. It is as if Jesus gazed thoroughly into the man and then - and only then - did he say "Follow me."

People are recruited as ladder holders as a group, but they continue as individuals.

Source: Who's Holding Your Ladder by Samuel R. Chand



Tuesday, April 23, 2019

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | WHO'S HOLDING YOUR LADDER | SAMUEL R. CHAND | CHAPTER 7

CHAPTER 7
ARE WE LOOKING UP THE LADDER?

We are only as good as the person who is answering the phone, the person who is greeting the customers, the person who deals with complains. Nobody cares who's the president of the company.

If you create a great human organisation, then everything else takes care of itself.

The principle is simple. If people are joyful and love what they're doing, it will show in everything they do. When they answer the phone, the caller will know they're happy in their jobs. I tell the people at the reception desk, "You are the director of first impressions".

You have to know what you do best and do it. The notion that you can make it at anything you want to do just isn't true. There are things you can and can't be successful at. You have to sit down and measure your skills - strong and weak - and then build toward the strengths.

You are only as good as the people around you. So surround yourself with good people.

It requires a lot of time and effort to make sure you have the right people working the right jobs, but we believe it is time well spent. Customer satisfaction is the pay off.

Given a choice, employers say they would take an adaptable 'people' person over a technically proficient worker.

Our biggest challenge is making sure we have the right people on board, trained properly, and qualified to provide the answers...about technology.

People before technology.

If we don't get the people right, it all goes away. We lose everything.

The best thing you can do is make sure you pick the right people.


Source: Who's Holding Your Ladder by Samuel R. Chand


Sunday, April 21, 2019

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | WHO'S HOLDING YOUR LADDER | SAMUEL R. CHAND | CHAPTER 6

CHAPTER 6
CAN WE TURN LADDER HOLDERS INTO LADDER CLIMBERS?

Every effective business leader and every senior pastor started somewhere. They may have already had the gifts that eventually pushed them up the ladder, but most of them didn't start there. God's plan was already in place but it started in a lowly position.

The only time you start at the top is when you are digging a hole.

Where did Elijah start? He held the ladder of the great prophet of Israel and faithfully followed until his turn came.

We are here today because Jesus saved us, of course. But we are also here today because his disciples started as supporters for Jesus until their times came to move upward. They are the ones who continued the work after Jesus was ascended.

At one time, I was the janitor, breakfast cook, and dishwasher at Beulah Heights. I held the ladder so that others could succeed and minister.

STEPS FOR TURNING LADDER HOLDERS INTO LADDER CLIMBERS

Spiritual Formation: focus on spiritual discipline and developing individuals. We want to help people develop who they are. We want them to be able to answer these questions:
What am I passionate about?
What are my gifts and talents?
To what kind of work is God calling me?
What frustrates me?
What makes me cry?
What brings me joy?

Skill formation: this is where we change and begin to focus on others. We are trained to do ministry through our local church.

Strategic formation: Here we focus on extending God's kingdom on earth and on leadership development.

In most churches we train but we don't develop.

UNLEARNING AND LEARNING

In developing leadership skills, I've learned that is more difficult to unlearn than it is to learn.

The best use of power is to give it away. We give it away by investing in others.

Most of the leaders of my generation - the boomer generation - are accidental leaders. We stumbled into leadership.

We need to get the right people on the bus and get the wrong people off. Then we need to get the right people in the right seats on the bus.

The person who does an excellent job of holding a twenty-foot ladder may not be the same person we need if you want to go higher. It cost me intense pain to realise that good people - committed, hardworking individuals and people of integrity - may not be the ones we need to help us move to the next level.

We need different ladder holders for different levels in the organisation. Old leaders are rarely new leaders because people continue to view the organisation at the level they came to it, whereas new leaders see it as it is now.

Source: Who's Holding Your Ladder by Samuel R. Chand




Saturday, April 20, 2019

SUMMARY ATTEMPT | WHO'S HOLDING YOUR LADDER | SAMUEL R. CHAND | CHAPTER 5

CHAPTER 5
ARE WE MANAGING LADDERS

Leaders know where they want to reach. They point up toward the spot that's so high those standing next to them don't always see it.

First, I want to make it clear that leaders aren't superior and neither are managers. One is not more important than the other; however, they are different.
Second, we need to recognize which one we are, because if we are leaders in managers' position we are frustrated and ineffective. Just as true, if we're managers in leaders positions were killing the organisation.

Leaders | Managers
Emphasize what and why | Emphasize how and when
Work from the future back to the present | Work from the past to the present
Focus on the long term | Focus on the short term or immediate
Embrace a macro-perspective | Embrace a micro perspective
Favor innovative thinking | Favours routine/save thinking
Seek to balance idealism with realism | Emphasize pragmatism over idealism
Show revolutionary flair | Protect the status quo
Clarify the vision: inspire and motivate | Implement the vision
Excite others by change | Are threatened by change
Decide quickly | Decide slowly
Identify opportunities | Identify obstacles
Take risks | Avoid risk
Pursue resources | Actions limited to available resources
People centred | System centred
Idea centred | Plan centred
Centre on core issues | Distracted by peripheral issues
Want others' approval | Need others approval
Do the right thing | Do things right

OBSERVATIONS ABOUT LEADERS AND MANAGERS

Leaders and managers complement each other. 

Both need to work in the area of their strengths.

Successful managers aren't always successful leaders; successful leaders aren't necessarily successful managers.

We need to evaluate the success of managers differently from the success of leaders.

We consider managers successful when they operate the organisation efficiently as well as deliver services on time and within budget.

We consider leaders successful when they enable the organisation to grow in its ability to serve the community by discovering new needs, expanding the resources base, and innovative approaches to service delivery, and when they energize or transform the organisation.

Leaders know where they want to reach. Managers know exactly where to position the ladder for maximum benefits.

If we are managers, we pride ourselves on being practical. If we are leaders, we pride ourselves on being imaginative and visionary.

Leaders focus on the future. They work from the future back to the present to show others how to get to the fulfilment of their vision. Managers conceptualize by walking from the past to get to the present. They build on the past to work efficiently in the present.

If we switch managers into leaders' roles, everything stalls. If we try to make leaders into managers, they can't take their eyes off the skies long enough to figure how to strengthen the ladder or position all the people they need.

Those who know how will always work for those who know why.

Change excites leaders and it frightens managers. We need both. Healthy fear is an ally.

Leaders identify opportunities; managers identify obstacles.

Leaders take risks; managers avoid risk. The larger risk is to refuse to take a risk. If we wait until we are 100% sure were already too late

MAKING DECISIONS

We have four questions we need to ask before we make our decisions - and those four must be in the right order.

1. Does this go along with our vision, mission, and core values? The fewer things an organisation does, the better off they are because they can focus and do all of them well.
2. Do we have the heart to make this happen? (Zeal and commitment).
3. How will God be glorified?
4. How much will it cost? We don't discuss money until we answered the first three questions. No one can bring up the cost factor unless we have positive answers to the first three.

Leaders see the empty coffers and know they can fill them; managers see only that the coffers are empty.

Salvation is free, but ministry is expensive.

For leaders, people's approval is a want; for managers, approval is a need.

The best ladder holders are excellent managers. Once they devise a plan, they can make things happen.

For leaders, ideas, concepts, visions, dreams, and entrepreneurship, fills their tank,  puts a smile on their faces, and makes them excited. For managers, fulfilment, affirmation, and encouragement are the major motivators.

Managers get the most out of themselves, but leaders get the most out of others.


Source: Who's Holding Your Ladder by Samuel R. Chand